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Featured Article #1: Ideas for enhancing the standard EFT Setup: This article by Jo Hainsworth of the UK can add benefit in those cases where we seem to be stopped. She says,"While these two ideas can seem too simple to be very powerful, they have held the key to a number of cases I've worked on recently. Once we start becoming aware of the subconscious beliefs we have around self-acceptance and safety, our subconscious blocks to healing tend to dissolve before our eyes, and we start building a completely new relationship with ourselves. The healing that unfolds is nothing sort of magical." Email Jo and Visit her website

Featured Article #2: Insights into picking up another person’s energy when doing EFT : A small number of EFTers, like Kevin Soltani, report picking up the energy or symptoms of their clients. Listen in as Kevin tells this important story and what he did about it. Email Kevin

Featured Article #3: Forgiveness and a clever idea made the difference for Marie Holliday--severe pain from spider bites: Read this one carefully and note the power of forgiveness. Note also how the severe pain persisted until Marie (from Spain) shifted her EFT approach. The main idea here is useful across the board and should be studied by everyone. Email Marie

Featured Article #4: EFT makes good progress with panic, agoraphobia and feeling like a failure: As you will see in this article by Zoe Zimmerman, a long list of childhood issues can ruin an adulthood! But when EFT is properly applied to the adult these problems improve. We don't always get "one minute wonders", of course, but progress can be very steady. Email Zoe and Visit her website

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Golf improvement--from the mid 90's to the 70's: Sports and other performance issues have been largely overlooked by EFT practitioners. Here are the results of my conversation with golfer Ron Johnson, who used EFT to go from being a 95-100 golfer to one who has had many rounds in the 70's. This level of improvement rarely happens with conventional instruction and thus sticks out like a mountain on a prarie. Ron also coaches other people using EFT for golf. One of his students, a gentleman, dropped his "average putts per round" from 37 to 29 while a lady golfer knocked an average of 5 to 6 strokes per round off of her score.
Self acceptance without judgment : Dr. Patricia Carrington advises us on some useful advantages of adding "without judgment" to the EFT Setup phrase. Where merited, this can add useful emphasis for some clients.
Unsociable behavior in a 14 year old boy: Here are my comments on a question from Carole, who was having some difficulty working with a teenage boy. In my experience, if a client is resistant to showing emotion, then rapport, or the lack of it, is the most likely factor. In fact, developing strong rapport has often made a significant difference with kids and teenagers. My suggestions follow her letter.
Using EFT from pre-birth to the present: Silvia Hartmann from the UK borrows some useful concepts from IC (Inner Child) work and blends them with EFT. The result is a highly useful protocol for not only getting at foundational issues but also for restructuring an entire childhood. Properly done, this idea holds the potential for transforming an unhappy childhood into a more pleasant one (this includes your own childhood). For many, this is the key to completely shifting the quality of their lives. It will take some mastery to pull this off, but the prize is well worth the pursuit.
Steve Wells' series on EFT and self-acceptance: Self-Acceptance is among our most pervasive issues. It is also a very global issue and, as such, is made up of many individual contributors. In a way, the degree to which we "Self-Accept" is a mirror for the quality of our lives. Steve Wells (from Australia), take us through his personal journey along the road to enhanced Self-Acceptance.
Bedwetting and a secret with God: Sometimes all that is necessary to resolve an important issue with EFT is some "bullseye phrasing." That is, language that takes aim at the centerpiece of the issue. This can come from the practitioners own intuition, of course, but it often comes right from the client. In the message below, Mary Hunt describes such an event regarding her daughter's bedwetting issue.
What would happen if this problem wasn't there any more?: Silvia Hartmann from the UK gives us, yet again, superb insights into the creative delivery of EFT. This time she introduces several questions we can ask clients that will point us directly to the core issues involved. Please write these questions down for future use. They can mean the difference between a so-so result and a jaw dropping success.
Paradoxes in validating one's self: David Lake, MD from Australia both educates and entertains us with this thought provoking article aimed at the paradoxes involved in validating one's self. He begins by acknowledging the difficulty many people have with the "I accept myself" part of the EFT set up phrase and proceeds to add insights as to why this happens. Then Dave provides some steps for dealing with this problem...including some clever language. You may want to write down some of his phrases.
An ADHD case: Amelia Conrad responds to the recent case posted by "Carl" regarding an adolescent boy's behavior problem. In Amelia's case, the young man is ADHD with substantial emotional possibilities as causes of the behavior. She describes her procedures and her results. I think you'll find the ending quite interesting.

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The EFT Course includes many live examples of EFT at work. One of those involves Connie who has chronic back pain. The first thing we need to deal with, however, is her anxiety for being in front of the audience. This becomes a "two for one" demonstration. First, you will watch her posture shift into relaxation as we tap for her anxiety. It takes a few rounds but she is soon ready to proceed. Using EFT for her back pain also took some persistence and you will watch the gentle manner in which we test the result. As she looks for the pain she says, "Well, I can't seem to find it."More Details

The EFT Specialty Series 1 includes presentations by 5 EFT experts on such topics as Doing Business with EFT, Addictions & Weight Issues, Relationships, Trauma, and Using EFT with Emotionally Disturbed Children & Getting EFT Accepted by Institutions. The latter two topics are beautifully presented by Ann Adams, LCSW (pictured at left). She details the use of EFT in the most difficult of situations (severely emotionally disturbed children in a residential facility) and gives us valuable inside information on how to bring EFT to governments, associations and other bureaucracies. Ann has been a bureaucrat for many years and thus has unique views to give us. More Details