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EFT for pregnancy troubles has a happy ending
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Hi Everyone,
Read how Amit Singh focuses EFT on two past miscarriages (specific events) to, apparently, avoid a third one. Physicians should be consulted on medical issues such as this.
Hugs, Gary
Dear Gary,
I am sharing this story many months after my work with this lady. Let me try to share the larger components of the work and the outcome. I also waited 3-months to make sure we had a happy ending.
Brenda is a young vivacious and warm-hearted woman, who was in the middle of her third pregnancy. She was tense and afraid about the next few months, and she had a good reason. Twice before, she had had miscarriages due to reasons she could not fathom. Both times, it all started with some "spot bleeding". All she was told by the doctor was that bleeding should not happen at this stage in her pregnancy and if it does, it is very risky. Both times she ended up with a miscarriage. Her doctors could not explain. All they could say was that it was a body malfunction of some kind.
Now, 6 months into her third pregnancy once again she encountered problems. To her it was a sign that the baby was going to be lost. She was very scared, afraid of the impending disaster. She and her husband were really keen to have a baby but equally helpless and afraid. She was afraid of losing the baby and he was afraid of her condition. They are in London.
In her first session I suggested we work on her present fear. I invited her to recount the most intense episode. She recalled how she bled for 2 days and she continued through all parts of the story while tapping. As her intensity reduced, we changed the statement.
"Even though I had this bleeding which was severe and continuous for two days, it is over now. Even though I felt helpless and scared, I now know that it is over ... I choose to love myself still."
I had her ramble as she tapped on all points up to her wrist, not so much using the Gamut procedure.
As she worked through two other bleeding episodes, her fear was almost not there. She was now speaking of having faith that the present pregnancy will hold. I suggested that she take time to see how she progresses and, if any bleeding recurs, she can simply call me or tap it out herself, with some help from her husband. About a week later we reconnected. There was no bleeding. I asked if there was any aspect of the past miscarriage that bothered her in the present. She said she was devastated by the loss of her first baby, within 9 weeks of conceiving.
Her answer indicated she had many questions and sadness about the first miscarriage. She said, "It was my first child. The baby was there and then we lost it. I lost my child. What did we do to deserve such a thing? We must've done something bad that God took the baby away." It seemed to me she was mourning the death of her child, and that in just 9 weeks of pregnancy, she had developed deep feelings for it.
We worked on releasing this sense of loss and bereavement. I also helped her understand the metaphysical and vibrational basis to such events, which soothed her immensely. I helped her see that her holding on to sadness and grief of a lost baby would impact the baby that was growing in her. She decided that it was OK to let go of her negative emotions, and that it was not her fault and that for the baby that went away, that soul is fine wherever it is.
At the end of this session, she was remarkably cheerful and gung-ho about the baby. She totally looked forward to having a child and reported no fear of bleeding. She seemed confident that everything would turn out just right and that she was going to have a baby! Over the next few months I only heard once from them that everything was going fine. Last week, they shared the good news with me that Brenda had given birth to a healthy baby boy. All was and is well.
Did EFT cause her to complete her pregnancy and have a child? Hard to say. What we do see is that EFT stopped her bleeding and certainly got Brenda out of her fear and the mindset that "I am going to have bleeding" and "Now that I am bleeding, I will miscarry again." Maybe that was the crucial difference this time.
And the importance for a pregnant mother to have more happy thoughts cannot be overstated because the mothers' emotions and vibrational essence hugely impacts the child.
Amit
