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  • "I downloaded the EFT Manual and have had astounding results. I am blown away by this technique!!" Donna Ehrich
  • "EFT is a phenomenal healing method and is an important centerpiece of my practice. It has helped cure many of my patients with chronic problems." Eric Robins, MD
  • "EFT has been amazing for backaches! I had nagging backache for many many months and nothing would help. I would do certain exercises, run hot and cold water on it and nothing changed. It didn't get better or worse until I tried EFT. One round and it was gone!" Rita Tyner
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  • "I tried your technique 2 days ago and in minutes an eye condition that has been driving me nuts for a year just left. This information is a beautiful gift to all of us." Sally Shallenberg
  • "I am not a professional practitioner of EFT. I am a housewife, mother, and portrait photographer who stumbled on to EFT two years ago, and fell in love with the gentle healing that EFT allows." Lisa Gunnoe
  • "We are very excited about this EFT program. My wife got rid of her back pain and too frequent headaches she has had for years. I no longer have acid reflux and no longer have to take a prescription drug for it." Bill Edens
  • "Two years ago, 1 1/2 hours of EFT work lifted an eight year long depression for which I had been using meds - I KNOW personally how amazing EFT is." Janice Smylie
  • "I have tried your technique, with a lot of skepticism at first, as it defies all logic....Gary, it worked....not only the first time on my headache, but the second time on my stiff neck and tension headache, the third time on my inability to sleep, and so on." Mary Smith
  • "I've never found a more user-friendly, dependable and precise technique that could produce such profound change in such a short time." Kim English
  • "I tried it on myself and shot a game of golf 12 strokes under my previous best game ever." Jack Konrath
  • "I have used EFT on myself and family members for a variety of quick therapies from shoulder pain to headaches, nausea, and so on. This method is absolutely invaluable." El March, PhD
  • "My clients have experienced profound & lasting results for weight issues, stress, anxiety, pain, phobias, sports performance, relationship issues, & more." Lindsay Kenny
  • "EFT has helped my clients deal successfully with addictions, grief, fears, phobias, sexual abuse, performance issues, self-image and stress. Dr. Catherine Saltzman
  • "EFT is a remarkable gift to the world." Al Viguerie, PhD
  • "I have gotten great results with EFT personally, and the results that my patients get are often nothing short of miraculous." Ray Mazon, D.O.M.
  • "EFT is "The Miracle Drug WITHOUT THE DRUG!" Pat Farrell
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  • "Words escape me. EFT is truly astounding. It could change the human race." Michael Killingback
  • "I have applied EFT 70 or 80 times and I have yet to come across a client who is not happy with the results EFT has given." John Birtwistle
  • "Wow! People can't believe the results we are getting. Neither can I. This is the best healing method I have ever come across." Jim Eaton
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EFT helps alleviate several issues associated with infidelity

Hi Everyone,

Observe how JoAnn Skywatcher moves her client through the many emotional issues that show up because of infidelity.

Hugs, Gary


By JoAnn SkyWatcher

“Karen” found out that her husband had been cheating on her with a mutual friend for a couple of years.  I had worked with her on her sadness during a mini-workshop a couple of months before, and she had gotten her sadness down to a 5 out of 10 before we ran out of time.

We were finally able to connect and to have a private EFT session, even though it had been almost six months since she initially found out that “Harry” had been having an affair.  Since then she realized that Harry was no longer going to be a part of her life.  He moved out, and took all of his possessions with him.  He also told Karen that it was over with him and he wasn't coming back.

When I asked what she wanted to work on, she said sadness.  Her level of intensity was an 8 on a scale of 0 to 10 - where a couple of months ago it was a 5 out of 10.  She thought it had risen to an 8 out of 10 because she can't see Harry anymore, and there was a part of her that still wanted to see him.  As she put both hands over her heart, she vividly described a heavy, blue, stuck feeling in her chest.

The set-up phrases that we used were

Even though I feel sad that … Harry can't see me any more … Harry doesn't want to be with me …I am open to him hurting me…

We did a couple of rounds of tapping and she said she felt more open.  We then tapped on, Even though I can't have Harry... and her level of intensity went to 5 out of 10.  She said she felt as though there was something pressing behind it all.  I asked her what was under it, and she said it was the fear of being alone.

I asked her to think of a time; as far back as she could remember when she felt afraid of being alone.  She was surprised to remember when her dad left her mom when she was 3 or 4 years old. In thinking about that time the level of intensity of her fear of being alone was 8 out of 10.

GC COMMENT: Note how JoAnn uncovers an important SPECIFIC EVENT in Karen's life. This is often important in collapsing major issues.

JOANN CONTINUES: After a couple of rounds of tapping on this specific event she felt a release in her chest that brought her level of intensity level to 4 out of 10 and she remembered that there always is someone there.  Two more rounds of tapping brought her level of intensity to 2 out of 10 and she said that it made her more resilient.  One more round brought it down to a zero out of 10, and she said that she felt strong.

We returned to the thought of “I can't have Harry”, and checked her level of intensity, which went from 3, to 2 then to zero out of 10.  Karen said that she felt calm.

I asked her if there was something else that she would like to clear, and she said that she was feeling overwhelmed with all of the things that she had to do, and that her level of intensity was 9 out of 10.  I asked how she knew it was a 9, and she said that the back of her jaw was extremely tense.  After a couple rounds of tapping, her level of intensity dropped from 9 to 3 out of 10, then to 1 and finally to zero.  Her jaw no longer felt tense and she her feelings of being overwhelmed had disappeared.

Then Karen expressed that she was mad at Harry for lying to her for two years.  Her level of intensity was 6 and I tried making jokes about Harry's behavior as we tapped and laughed.  It took only a couple of rounds of tapping and Karen said that she no longer felt any anger at Harry, but now felt pity for him.  We did some positive affirmations while she tapped:

I remember to breathe

I easily find my center

I remember the Goddess that I am

I experience the love that is deep within me

I remember love is always here now

Karen walked away looking like a weight had lifted off her being.  She laughed and moved in a way that looked much lighter than when we had started - just one hour before.

JoAnn SkyWatcher

EFT Endorsements Deepak Chopra, MD endorses EFT

Deepak Chopra, MD


"EFT offers great healing benefits."

 

Candace Pert,PhD endorses EFT

Candace Pert, PhD

Author of Molecules of Emotion.

"EFT is at the forefront of the new healing movement."

 

Norm Shealy, Md, PhD, endorses EFT

Norm Shealy, MD

Author of Soul Medicine.

"By removing emotional trauma, EFT helps heal physical symptoms too."

 

Cheryl Richardson endorses EFT

Cheryl Richardson

Author of The Unmistakable Touch of Grace.

"EFT is destined to be a top healing tool for the 21st Century"

 

Bruce Lipton, PhD, endorses EFT

Bruce Lipton, PhD

Author of The Biology of Belief.

"EFT is a simple, powerful process that can profoundly influence gene activity, health and behavior."

 

Donna Eden, EFT endorser

Donna Eden

Co-Author of The Promise of Energy Psychology.

"EFT is easy, effective, and produces amazing results. I think it should be taught in elementary school."

 

Eric Robins, MD, endorses EFT

Eric Robins, MD

Co-author of Your Hands Can Heal you.

"I frequently use EFT for my patients with great results."

 

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Important note: While EFT has produced remarkable clinical results, it must still be considered to be in the experimental stage and thus practitioners and the public must take complete responsibility for their use of it. Further, Gary Craig is not a licensed health professional and offers EFT as an ordained minister and as a personal performance coach. Please consult qualified health practitioners regarding your use of EFT.