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Loving your feminine body

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Hi Everyone,

Nancy Morris pinponts a list of issues that were barriers to her client's success. To emphasize the importance of getting to specific events for this type of globally stated issue, Nancy says, "When someone says something general, like "I don't feel comfortable with my feminine body" it requires some unraveling of the specific events that contributed to this feeling."

Hugs, Gary


By Nancy Morris

Hi Gary,

So many of the published cases show how EFT provides fast relief of phobias, headaches, rashes etc. that people often give up too soon on more complex issues.  I'm writing this case to show the amazing transformation that can happen to basic beliefs with some persistence. 

Jody, a woman in her mid-50's contacted me looking for "help with her sexuality".  When I asked more specifically what she wanted, she said she didn't feel comfortable as a woman and would like to "feel comfortable and happy in her feminine sexual body."  She was single, had been married before, and in the long term wanted to find another relationship but felt that even if she did, she was so uncomfortable with her sexuality that the relationship would fail.  She wanted to work on this herself so she'd be ready for the relationship when it came along.  This is such an intelligent approach.

One year after we began our work I received this note from Jody:  "Thought I would drop you a note to give you an update on what has been happening in my life.  I've met a very nice guy, very thoughtful, loving and considerate and so honest and open I think we may have a future together.  Thank you for all your help in getting me to this stage in my life where I could be free and really present in the moment (both in and out of bed) with him.  AND it was better than good!!!  It was a truly exquisite experience for me.  I am feeling feminine and sexy.  I still tap each day.  Who really knows what the future will hold, but I am enjoying the journey."

How did Jody make this change?  It was simple, but required some persistence.  When someone says something general, like "I don't feel comfortable with my feminine body" it requires some unraveling of the specific events that contributed to this feeling.  To summarize, with Jody, we worked on:

  • Specific incidents that had caused her to not feel SAFE to be a woman and her fear of men (based on her father and grandfather's abusive behaviors).
  • There was sexual abuse as a child to clear up.
  • Jody felt much sadness and fear in her body and often found comfort in food.
  • We dealt with many body-related issues, body image/ acceptance.
  • Specific incidents as a teenager where she learned it wasn't safe to show her feminine side.
  • Her marriage, husband's infidelity, his constant criticisms, and their divorce.
  • During our work together Jody lost her job and we dealt with her fears about finding a new one.
  • As our work progressed Jody moved toward forgiveness or at least acceptance of those who had hurt her and gained self-assurance.

In all we had 15 appointments.  Yes, that is a lot for EFT, but Jody got exactly the result she was looking for "feeling comfortable and happy in her feminine sexual body" and she got a better job with better pay, gained confidence in herself at work and with friends, she improved her family relationships, and lost weight in the bargain.  Not to mention that she feels "free and really present in the moment (both in and out of bed) with him.  AND it was better than good!!!  It was a truly exquisite experience for me."

EFT can be a life changer if we stick with it.

Warm regards, Nancy Morris

 

 

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