IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Gratitude, (2) We Don't Know The Cause, (3) The Unseen Therapist At Work: (a) Can The Unseen Therapist Change The Unfairness Of The World? (b) What If My Issues Won't Shift?, (4) Articles/Videos To Review, (5) NEED MORE HELP?
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Last Webinar Recording Now Available, (3) Gabrielle Rutten's Boot Camp For Chronic Physical Issues, (4) Practice Group Reminder
"My husband can never put his clothes IN the dirty laundry basket. They’re always on the floor. And it makes me appreciate him even more.
I saw this post awhile ago about how the men in our lives tend to never be able to put their clothes after work, into the laundry basket. How they’re always on the floor.
When I first saw this, I agreed. I thought to myself “oh my god THIS! It’s SO annoying!” I even showed my husband the article saying “why do you do this?!” And that’s the way I thought, until yesterday.
My husband came home from work, played with our children a little, asked what was for dinner, if I needed anything, then went to take a shower. Ten minutes later I walk past the laundry basket, right where our washroom also is. And I see it. The thing that would usually make me yell through the shower door. The thing that has annoyed me for so long. But this time, I see something different.
I notice the stains all over his work pants
The dirty socks stuffed into his destroyed work boots
The sweat filled t-shirt.
The evidence of just how hard he works, is all over the clothes he left on the floor.
So, I looked at those dirty clothes on the floor, that I once would have started a fight over, and I picked them up, put them in the basket, and walked away.
When he got out of the shower, he noticed his dirty shoes and clothes were no longer there, and that I hadn’t said anything. And he thanked me. Which he had never done before, probably because I was too quick to start an argument about it.
He said “thank you for putting that away, I had a long day.”
And I said, “I know. I could see it on your clothes.”
Sometimes the things that annoy us, can be looked at differently.
I stopped looking at it as dirty clothes on the floor, and started looking at it as proof of just how hard my husband works to provide for us and our children.
I am grateful he left his clothes on the floor that day. I saw him in a whole new light. It just took me awhile to see it." From EpochBright
Out of curiosity, I spent two hours one morning looking for the causes of our various ailments on WebMD.com, one of the largest, and considered more authoritative, medical websites currently available. I could find nothing resembling a true cause for any disease. In fact, the inability to understand true cause is readily admitted. Here are a few quotes (emphasis added) representing the multitudes of open admissions in this regard:
Multiple Sclerosis: “Doctors still don’t understand what causes multiple sclerosis, but there are interesting data that suggest that genetics, a person’s environment, and possibly even a virus may play a role.”
Migraine Headaches:“Experts aren’t sure what causes migraines. They run in families, and experts have found a genetic link. But it isn’t clear why some people get migraines and others don’t.”
Asthma:“No one really knows what causes asthma. What we do know is that asthma is a chronic inflammatory disease of the airways.”
Irritable Bowel Syndrome:“The exact cause of irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) isn’t known. But health experts believe that faulty communication between the brain and the intestinal tract is one cause of symptoms.”
Rheumatoid Arthritis:“Doctors don’t know exactly what causes Rheumatoid Arthritis. It may be a combination of genes and environment. Some researchers think an infection with a bacteria or virus can trigger the disease in some people, but so far, they don’t know what virus or other organism does that.”
Scoliosis:“In most cases, the cause of scoliosis is not known. This is called idiopathic scoliosis. It develops mostly in children and teens and appears to be related to several things, including genetics, as it often runs in families.”
Sjogren’s Disease:“Doctors don’t know the exact cause. You may have genes that put you at risk. An infection with a bacteria or virus may be a trigger that sets the disease in motion.”
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder:“No one knows exactly what causes ADHD, but certain things are known to play a role.”
Dyslexia:“The cause of dyslexia is not clear, although it is probably an inherited (genetic) disorder because it runs in families. Some studies have shown that people with dyslexia have abnormalities in the functioning of the areas of the brain involved in reading and language.”
Anxiety:“The exact cause of anxiety disorders is unknown, but anxiety disorders — like other forms of mental illness — are not the result of personal weakness, a character flaw, or poor upbringing. As scientists continue their research on mental illness, it is becoming clear that many of these disorders are caused by a combination of factors, including changes in the brain and environmental stress.
Panic Disorder:"The exact cause of panic disorder isn’t clear. It is thought that it may be caused by an imbalance of chemicals in the brain (neurotransmitters). It also may be passed down through families (genetic).”
Phobias:“The cause of phobias is unknown. If you have a family member with a phobia, you are more likely to have a phobia.”
Endometriosis:“The exact cause of endometriosis is not known.”
Leukemia:“Experts don’t know what causes leukemia. But some things can increase the risk of some kinds of leukemia.”
Bipolar Disorder:“Doctors don’t completely understand the causes of bipolar disorder. But they’ve gained a greater understanding in re- cent years of the bipolar spectrum, which includes the elated highs of mania to the lows of major depression, along with various mood states between these two extremes.”
Chronic Fatigue Syndrome:“Doctors don’t know what causes chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS). For many people, CFS symptoms start after a viral illness. In some cases, CFS seems to follow a major physical or emotional trauma or an exposure to toxins. But there is no single known cause of CFS.”
Eczema:“Doctors don’t know exactly what causes eczema. The most common type of eczema — atopic dermatitis — resembles an allergy. But the skin irritation, which is more often seen in children rather than adults, is not an allergic reaction.”
This is a disappointing display and, regrettably, it only represents around one percent of the complete list. Thus, despite massive amounts of research money spent trying to find cures, our doctors have yet to be given a true cause for the vast majority of our diseases. Yet we rely on those physicians and, while we sometimes have success, we are all too often subject to unnecessary surgeries, misdiagnoses and side effects from prescribed medications. What better evidence could we have that medical researchers are aiming at the wrong target? They are looking for causes where they don’t exist. It’s like mining for gold in your bathtub. It’s not there.
Try this for your own ailment(s). Go to WebMD.com, or any other large medical website, and look for the true causes. If you can find one, let me know. However, in your search, please don’t accept as true cause definitions such as, “There appears to be a genetic tendency…” or “Those with Diabetes are more likely to suffer this disease…” or “Risk factors include…” Tendencies, second hand influences and risk factors are not causes. They merely help doctors form educated guesses with which they try to explain what is happening.
THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK - A SERIES
NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.
Can The Unseen Therapist Change The Unfairness Of The World?
"HOWEVER, The Unseen Therapist can shift our RESPONSE to the seemingly unfair circumstances in our lives. And this is a major benefit."
Wouldn't it be nice if The Unseen Therapist could do this? Sure would solve a lot of problems. However, what seems unfair to one person can be considered completely fair to someone else. So to change anything deemed unfair to one person will only shift the unfairness to another. So, sorry, no can do.
HOWEVER, The Unseen Therapist can shift our RESPONSE to the seemingly unfair circumstances in our lives. And this is a major benefit.
Join Gabrielle Rutten, MD and me as we discuss this advantage in detail.
"This advanced technique can add major efficiency and save loads of time."
Most EFT'ers, at least those who still use the EFT Tapping method, either aim at the SYMPTOM (usually a poor approach) or use "Detective Work" to try to find the CAUSE. With our newest advancement, we can ask The Unseen Therapist (spiritual wisdom) and get direct answers that are right on point. This advanced technique can add major efficiency and save loads of time.
Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, April 24, at 10am Pacific time. It will be dedicated to Members' questions/comments about our Advanced Lessons, Self-Help Sessions, Challenging cases, personal uses or anything else that will help us climb our Stairway to Miracles.
This is where you get live support from me and immerse yourself in both our OEFT process and The Unseen Therapist. Lively exchanges. Entertaining, Highly informative. Customized to you.
Our topics this time will include:
An inspirational discussion with Kim and the idea of using a song as a Heavenly Habit.
Continued discussions with Anne... this time on important levels of forgiveness (among other topics).
Our last Webinar's recording is now available: To access it, just login to your Optimal EFT Membership Account and, in the left hand menu, click/tap on Recorded Webinars>Webinars 2017 and after>Webinars 106-135>#133: More On Belief Ceilings and Heavenly Habits.
Here are the Topics of interest:
0:00:00 Gary opens Webinar. Sheri provides an orientation.
0:05:56 Anne and Gary discuss Anne's progress with her issues. This includes discussions about Belief Ceilings and Heavenly Habits.
0:45:42 Gabrielle discusses her "after the fact" Heavenly Habit. Gary comments.
0:53:13 Butterfly Whisperer (Kim) describes her useful Heavenly Habit. Gary comments.
1:05:06 Gabrielle gives her thoughts about "getting to zero" and German New Medicine. Gary and Sheri comment.
1:18:00 Jagjeet thanks Gabrielle for her previous comments on allergies AND provides an example of his Heavenly Habit. Gary comments.
1:21:34 Cara describes her "deep and abiding peace" that went through her body as a result of asking Unseen Therapist for help. Gary comments and closes the Webinar.
Gabrielle Rutten's Next OEFT Boot Camp
For Chronic Physical Issues
This Boot Camp is for students who already have a thorough understanding of OEFT and of working with The Unseen Therapist. They have studied and practiced the 30 Advanced Lessons, they have studied the Self-Help videos and they have worked through enough of the Webinars to have a good working knowledge of the structure of OEFT and the Personal Peace Procedure. In addition they have finished Sheri Baker’s OEFT Bootcamp and/or finished/are taking the certification program.
The Boot Camp is a six-week training program and includes a one hour personal consultation with Gabriëlle Rutten, the instructor.
The goal is to provide you with a plan of action how to work on your chronic physical issues (or your clients'), and covers topics such as:
Personal Inventory of chronic physical symptoms
Roadmap to underlying emotional issues
The role of:
Diagnosis - Prognosis and Treatment shocks
Pain, negative emotions and beliefs as chronic triggers