IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Announcement, (2) The Unseen Therapist At Work: (a) Exploring For Barb's Deeper Issues, (b) What Else May Cause Flu/Vaccination Symptoms?, (3) Articles/Videos To Review, (4) NEED MORE HELP?
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Anne's Belief Ceiling Is Rising, (3) Andre's Visit With The Unseen Therapist During Panicky Times, (4) Practice Group Reminder
Today's Announcement: For the forseeable future, I will be working on a major project and so this newsletter will be sent every other Thursday instead of each Thursday
THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK - A SERIES
NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.
Exploring For Barb's Deeper Issues
"You will find many creative approaches here as we dive into Barb's "I'm Not Good Enough" and "I'm Not Lovable" issues."
As you will see near the beginning of this video, "Barb" (name adjusted for privacy reasons) thought that she had previously worked on her issues and was unaware of having much left. Nonetheless, we spent time exploring for deeper issues and, indeed, found them.
This is a vital skill for properly applying Optimal EFT and is artistically displayed with Barb. You will find many creative approaches here as we dive into Barb's "I'm Not Good Enough" and "I'm Not Lovable" issues. We eventually bring in The Unseen Therapist for resolution and, along the way, a generous amount of humor emerges. This, of course, reflects our High-End Training and is available to everyone.
PS: Here is a followup e-mail sent to me by Barb...
Last night and this morning I exercised - physically exercised - which is something I have been putting off forever. I have this feeling of wanting to take care of myself.
When I tested - don't be silly, I didn't feel anything. Then I laughed and the thought came to me that it really was silly as I had this image of a small child hands on hips standing up to two adults. It felt great to think of it and be able to laugh. I have been re-testing sporadically throughout the day today and still nothing.
I am working on my list, but every time something comes to mind it seems to me that my inappropriate behavior came from the same place - i.e. feeling that I was not loved. There has been so much evidence to the contrary, but obviously that feeling was very deep-rooted - more than I realized as evidenced by my spontaneous tears.
I experimented a bit more with unseen therapist and this time rather than just going up in the elevator, (which by the way I didn't mention but it's a beautiful Lucite elevator with 360 degree visibility so I always go by beautiful lights and sights - different each time) it seemed it me that there was a figure slightly higher than I and off to my left.
I think I mentioned that I worked in a nursing home. It was not unusual for residents nearing end of life to be looking up and talking to something/someone that only they were seeing. After my very good friend passed one of the residents came up to me and asked, "Who is that?" and pointed just off to the side and behind me. When I turned no one was there - I asked her - where? She pointed again and said he's right there. She was very emphatic and sure of herself and getting annoyed with me for not being able to see what she was seeing. We are surrounded by beings, and it is a thin veil, so I wait patiently because it is totally in my belief system that we can receive these messages and healing. I am grateful to you for bringing this to the attention of the EFT community and beyond.
Thank you, Barb
What Else May Cause Flu/Covid/Vaccination Symptoms?
"...there are other causes that often escape our attention."
We tend to think that Flu/Covid/Vaccination symptoms arise from outside sources such as viruses, needles and the like. As you will see, however, there are other causes that often escape our attention.
Listen in as Helle Gylling and I discuss these causes and use an actual case of one of Helle's clients as an impressive example.
Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, February 13, at 10am Pacific time.
This time we will continue with our efforts at raising our "belief ceilings." This series, featuring Anne C as our inspirational volunteer, has been enthusiastically received and I hold great future hopes for everyone who attends.
Please note the article below entitled Anne's Belief Ceiling Is Rising for an update on her progress.
Be sure to join us for the whole series. Many benefits possible for all.
For Best Results: Please review the foundational intro I recorded in Webinar #127 from 0:11:10 to 0:39:34. It is important and applies to this entire series. Without it, your benefits will be limited.
Come with a working knowledge of my free e-book, The Unseen Therapist.
Come with an up to date list of issues & specific events with current 0-10's. These are essential for you to truly gain the longer term benefits that this series can provide.
Finally, be prepared with pen and paper to write down your beliefs as they occur to you (and expand) during these sessions. This will assist in measuring your longer term results and the belief expansions for which we are aiming.
Anne's Belief Ceiling Is Rising
A visit from The Unseen Therapist in The Palace of Possibilities
Gary's Intro: For those following our recent Webinar series, you may be interested in Anne's progress between the Webinars. As you recall, this inspirational lady was subject to major childhood religious conditioning and was given an "impossible" task of climbing out of this deep hole.
However, thanks to our Webinar audience's work with Anne, as well as her work on her own, she is raising her belief ceiling as to what is possible. Below is a description of her recent session with The Unseen Therapist.
From Anne: I am in the basement of my room in The Palace of Possibilities. I am a small fire with a flame flickering all the way to the ceiling. Around me stand Mom, Grandma, and Dad. They are close enough to each other to hold hands, but the fire doesn’t touch them. They had been wrapping me in their cloaks of beliefs since my birth, giving me attention that I welcomed. I so willingly wanted to please them. But now, the cloaks are on fire. I am the fire.
The Unseen Therapist reaches Her hand into the burning fire and pulls me out, a little four-year-old girl. The fire and people remain in place, but I’m laughing. I’m happy. I’m escaping. The cloaks I was given that hold the beliefs of the others are still burning in the fire. I feel full of energy and free. I run with The Unseen Therapist through the dark basement. Her presence lights the way. In the distance, I see a light coming from the ceiling. When we get close, the light beams down on a large ornate throne made of gold with red velvet cushioning. It sits upon a dais.
The Unseen Therapist says, “This is your majesty. This is your magnificence.”
I giggle and run up the steps to the chair. I climb up into the chair and sit on one of the ornate golden arms, pressing my little bare feet against the velvet cushion of the seat. The Unseen Therapist climbs up and sits with me. We are both laughing and having fun.
She hands me a bag of popcorn. “Let’s watch a movie.”
A big white screen appears as I pop some popcorn into my mouth. On the screen appears my "nap event" movie. This little girl (me during nap time in a room with my siblings) is lying in bed and puts her hand in her crotch. It feels good. It feels natural. This is part of her body.
Suddenly, her mom jerks her out of the bed, takes her into the bathroom, and starts whipping her.
I put some popcorn in my mouth and look at The Unseen Therapist. “What’s wrong with that woman?”
“She’s scared,” she says. “She’s scared because she does this, too, and it’s a sin in her mind. It’s not allowed. She wants to make sure the little girl understands this. The mother doesn’t know it, but there is an anger in her, too. She is bad like the little girl. She is punishing herself through the little girl.”
When the little girl is set free, she runs back to her bed with tears falling down her eyes. Instead of hiding under the covers, she puts them up to her chin and watches her mother walk out of the room. She can see the woman is disturbed.
I stuff some more popcorn in my mouth as the movie continues.
The mother throws down the switch she used to whip the child as she walks into the kitchen. She did her duty. She fulfilled her obligation to raise her child right. Her own mother would be happy. The Church would be happy. God would be happy. But she isn’t happy.
“Why does she seem upset?” I ask The Unseen Therapist.
“She holds a nagging feeling of guilt. Guilt that she did the same thing with her body and still has the urge to do the same thing. She can’t get it out of her mind. She can’t get it out of her body. So she carries guilt about it and punishes herself with that guilt.”
The mother hears a knock at the door. It’s a neighbor woman. The mother puts on a happy face and invites her in.
I’m still chewing on the popcorn in rapt attention. Some pieces fall on the velvet seat. “What happened to the little girl?” I ask.
“She’s fine. She is seeing the truth about her mother’s actions and fears. She’s understanding that she doesn’t have to take on the same beliefs.”
The little girl smiles as she falls asleep. When she gets up, she goes to the bedroom door and carefully looks at her mother.
Her mother smiles weakly. It’s a false smile. It hides from the neighbor the fact that there is guilt and fear in her heart. But the little girl can see the fear in her mother’s eyes.
“Why is the mother afraid?” I ask The Unseen Therapist.
“She fears she is not a good mother. She fears she is failing at raising her children right. She’s not sure how to keep them from sinning. It seems out of her control. Every child is just one more path to Hell. It’s so unbearable that she hides behind a façade to look happy to outsiders, to make it appear that her family is perfect. But all the while, she knows that God is watching her, judging her, and prepared to punish her for all the things she cannot control.”
A piece of popcorn falls on my toe. I scoot my toes along the velvet seat, so soft and plush. I’m enjoying the popcorn and the movie.
The Unseen Therapist gets up and steps down to let my brother Joey, six years old, crawl up the chair and sit next to me. He has a bag of popcorn, too. He watches the movie with me.
I swallow some popcorn and ask him, “Do you remember that movie?”
“Yeah, now that I see it.”
“Did you know what the little girl was getting in trouble for?”
He shrugged. “What bad thing can a person do in bed? I thought it might be that. I felt bad for her. I was scared myself that I might be next.”
Marie, two years old, crawls up into the chair and leans on the other arm.
“Do you remember that, Marie?” I ask.
“No, but the situation seems familiar.”
“Did Mom punish you, too?”
“I think she slapped my hands. But I wasn’t so obvious. I knew it was wrong, but I just made sure Mom didn’t find out.”
I laughed and tossed a piece of popcorn at her.
Andre's Visit With The Unseen Therapist During Panicky times
"Then I heard my name and I stopped. It was her (The Unseen Therapist), “I haven’t left you, I’m always here. You just haven’t been coming to see me.” (She was right)."
Intro from Gary:As you can see from his letter below, Andre was having a major emotional reaction to recent tugs-of-war between the citizens of his country and politicians. He was reverting to medications to resolve it UNTIL The Unseen Therapist showed up. Fascinating story. Read on.
I’m still struggling with some anger issues over the hate that seems so prevalent in society today—and indeed in my very city mere miles from my front door.
In my last update, I told you I was completely unfocused and couldn’t concentrate long enough to find the Unseen Therapist. Yesterday my anxiety had resurfaced to the point that I took one milligram of Ativan—the first in I can’t remember how long—and then again today. Panic was imminent and I had to head it off. This is after I yelled at my ever-so-gentle cats (which is pointless because they’re both completely deaf) and then out of spite I wouldn’t feed the wild rabbits who live in the forest behind my house but come to my back glass doors not for scraps but for actual rabbit food that I buy and fruit and vegetables that I cycle out of my fridge.
I wasn’t happy so no one else was going to be either.
I went downstairs and got on my elliptical and my mind was racing, I couldn’t concentrate on the television and had set the machine to the most difficult course at the highest resistance all in an effort to prove to myself that I’d be a failure at that too.
My partner came down to find me yelling at myself. I yelled “I can’t find her, she’s left me!”
“Who are you talking about? Who has left you?”
“The Unseen . . . “
Then I heard my name and I stopped.
It was her (The Unseen Therapist), “I haven’t left you, I’m always here. You just haven’t been coming to see me.” (She was right).
She’s never used my name before, nor have I ever seen her face clearly. In my mind she’s always been an ethereal being; not quite body, not quite soul,
I immediately recognized her. She’s been on an end-table in my living room for years. I have no recollection as to where this porcelain figure came from, it just appeared in house one day. It is of the manufacture of a line that I collect (Rosenthal) but I don’t recall where or when I would have bought this particular piece. Now I realize she’s been here this whole time and I just didn’t know—perhaps just waiting for me to find her.
I said “I’m so happy you’re here, I have a lot of issues I need to work through and I need them resolved.”
“We can work on as many as you want and do it whatever way is most comfortable for you. We can start with the most difficult or the easiest or we can just do each one as it comes to mind.”
We did them at random and with each one my shoulders dropped, my breathing normalized, my focus on the issues was almost completely restored and we worked on probably a dozen issues and resolved them pretty much down to a one or a zero.
"I once was lost,
but now I am found,
but now I see."
~ John Newton
Thank you Gary, for everything,
PS: I also asked if I should make up with the cats and feed the rabbits. She said “You don’t need me to help you with the answer to that."
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