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Intense childhood anger reduces to peace via mother's surrogate EFT

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Hi Everyone,

Kassandra Murray's son had seen many child psychologists for intense anger issues. Nonetheless, his fits of anger continued to result in self-inflicted pain. Kassandra tapped on herself in behalf of her son (surrogate EFT) and noticed striking benefits. Check out the hologram metaphor she uses for her surrogate work.

Hugs, Gary

By Kassandra Murray NWS, CPTS


Good Morning Gary,

I have been using EFT for about 5 months now diligently everyday for myself, with others as well as surrogate (distance).  I have had so many amazing experiences and wanted to share a really exciting one with you and the EFT network.

My son has had anger issues for as long as I can remember.  He has been to see quite a few child psychologists as a child from 6-9 yrs old. He is now 15 and still continues to inflict pain on himself when he gets frustrated by biting himself and has now started hitting himself.  I pray and channel healing energy to help with the immediate situation and that seems to help for the moment.

I have started tapping with him a couple of months ago and noticed a few things;  his marks have gone up in school and he seems to have better focus.  He does not always want to tap with me so I do it surrogately, I picture a hologram of him with me and work with his energetic field.

Last night, though, he was having another fit of anger and I just started tapping surrogately in my bedroom on his energy.  I tapped for about 5 or 6 rounds just on his anger with whatever phrases came to me and pictured things he saw as a child which I believe contributed to his anger.  I tapped on anger and fear suppressed deep in his soul.  Within 30 -45 minutes he was vomiting in the bathroom and did not know why.  He thought maybe he ate too much but I truly believe he vomited his deep anger!!!

He was calm and the house was peaceful again I could feel the peace come back to our space.  Very COOL!  This morning I read the EFT newsletter article about the "Suppressed anger expelled via the stomach", this for me was confirmation that his energy had shifted greatly and I am so grateful.

Today he is laughing and getting along with his sister, I am so excited to help him in this turning point in his life!  I have told him about the surrogate EFT and he just laughs and says thanks Mom.
There is still more work to be done but we are well on our way.


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