IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone:(1) Today's Note, (2) The Unseen Therapist At Work: (a) "Not Good Enough: Dilemma, (b) The Ultimate Cause, (3) The Unseen Therapist Through The Eyes Of An Experienced Newcomer, (4) Articles/Videos To Review
For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED:(1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Practice Groups Continue To Improve, (3) Impressive Practice Group Feedback, (4) Practice Group Reminder
Today's Note: Because of the Holidays, this will be the last newsletter for this year. Next newsletter on Thursday, January 6.
THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK - A SERIES
NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.
Virginia's "Not Good Enough" Dilemma
A "Good Start" Session
"The whole video should be highly useful
because most of us deal with this issue."
Listen in as Virginia and I explore this very common issue in great depth. We start by trying to define what is meant by "Not Good Enough" and then provide numerous reframes to put this highly illogical belief into perspective.
We end with a creative Unseen Therapist session that involves a hot-air balloon, sandbags and "regret rocks." The whole video should be highly useful because most of us deal with this issue. You can even immerse yourself into the session as though you were Virginia.
"However, there is a much bigger benefit that awaits them beyond the relief for one or more specific issues."
Most people come to Optimal EFT and The Unseen Therapist because they want specific ailments addressed. Perhaps they have slow healing injuries, disease symptoms, phobias, etc. that are causing them immediate problems. Whatever the ailment these immediate issues are their central focus. As should be evident to even the most casual observer, we have many very impressive successes along these lines.
However, there is a much bigger benefit that awaits them beyond the relief for one or more specific issues. It is the development of profound personal peace. This, as you will learn, addresses the central cause for just about every ailment you can name.
Listen in as Anne Ryan and I discuss this vital topic in detail.
'Do you know how wonderful you are. How dearly God holds you?'”
By Margaret Agard
Intro: I used your EFT for years to help others but not myself. A few years ago I read about the Unseen Therapist and immediately thought, "Oh I know what this is. The Holy Spirit. I can do this. I have 50 years of experience connecting with, communicating with, and discerning that still, small voice with the occasional vision."
But it had never occurred to me to use that as a consistent tool for healing, in particular for healing others. I’m still hanging back a bit on that but there’s a reason for that. I have personally used it to relieve myself of much of the shame I felt over past experiences.
Sharing experiences: Why am I reaching out? I’m just sharing experiences, and my thoughts on where to go with this method of yours. It’s great to meet a fellow traveler. I have a few stories to share that might interest you. How I use it, my quest to always have that spirit with me and what I’ve learned about that, and responses to my prayers to see other people as God/The Holy Spirit/The Unseen Therapist does.
How I use it: I pray daily over my to-do list asking, "What do you want me to do today" - and I'm led in new and better directions. Like you, I wish more people would do that, especially world leaders. How different the world would be. I've written a short memoir on that. I think you will relate to the last paragraph, "I used to try to be good, so that God would love me. Now I want to do good, because I know God loves me. I want to bring that same love and comfort to others. Every time I do I feel happy."
Also I engage in contemplative prayer: sitting in quiet meditation in the presence of the Holy Spirit.
Losing the connection: Once I had spent the morning helping another person and as I drove home I felt the lightness, joy, and deep peace that comes when I’m in Her presence. I pulled up to a stop sign and watched as a car slowly moved closer and closer. Too close to pull out and yet taking forever to get to my stop when the driver turned just before my road. I thought, “Huh! If he’d used his turn signal I could have gone instead of being stuck here.”
Immediately I felt the loss of that spirit. Just that tiny bit of irritation. I was able to return to Her presence by using forgiveness for both the man and myself, but it was a good lesson to me. I now think of rush hour traffic as an opportunity for forgiveness-on-demand and seeing other people as She does.
Loving other people: I once was sitting in a meeting just ripping people apart in my mind. I was appalled at myself but couldn’t seem to stop. I asked, “Please help me see these people as you do.” It was as if shackles fell off my eyes. They became shining things to me. Tears were streaming down my face and the feelings of love and wonder were so strong they were almost painful. I wanted to reach out and hug them and say, “Do you know how wonderful you are. How dearly God holds you?”
Keeping the connection: As a recovering oldest daughter I have a powerful need to take over, be responsible for and help (fix) other people and their messes. I am also constantly looking at and judging/criticizing people for the poor decisions they are making that I am most likely going to have to help clean up. One day I said to God, “How do I get over being so judgmental and critical?” And He said, "You don’t have to fix it.” IT being other people and their problems. That has been so freeing for me. Whenever I notice myself being judgmental, I remind myself I don’t have to fix this. And immediately I relax and the love flows. There was love under that judgmental attitude all along.
This year has been a year for me to not fix other people, to focus on my own healing rather than being distracted by others. It sounds selfish as I write this, but it is the task and attitude I’ve been given, at least for this year.
So that’s how I’ll be working with the unseen therapist this year.
Our next Webinar:Due to the holidays, it will be on Sunday, January 2, at 10am Pacific time. Topics to be announced.
Our Practice Groups Continue To Improve
An update from Dr. Marion Bilich who is mentoring
some of our newer Practice Groups - Great Potential
Hi Gary. I can't tell you how excited I am about what is happening in these groups already. Today I had the third meeting with the Monday group and after the discussion of Lesson 2, one person was in the hotseat (loveseat). The depth and intensity of the work the group members did for her was incredible.
They jumped right into it, getting Unseen Therapist images of healing for her early childhood painful experience, as well as getting insights and messages.
All of them!
The 0-10 level of feelings of abandonment went from an 8 to a 0. Her thinking about the event had shifted and that's always a good sign. We tested at the end of the meeting, and it had held at 0. We will check on it again next week.
They also are forming their own group "rules" without my input. For instance, they decided that rather than a leaderless group like the ones I have, they now take turns leading the group. And it's working well for them.
I was talking to Mary McGrory about this this afternoon, and she said "it's as though many OEFT members thought they would buy a Honda and that was okay with them. Now they are realizing that they can reach for and have a Lamborghini!"
It's like watching groups being born or Lamborghinis being created.
Thank you for allowing me this opportunity
Impressive Practice Group Feedback
As many of you know, Dr. Marion Bilich has been helping some new Practice Groups in their pursuits of The Unseen Therapist's many benefits. Eventually, Marion, Mary McGrory and Norma Beatriz will provide some written guidelines for all Practice Groups. Until then, however, please note these comments of gratitude from the current Practice Group participants.
I'm currently dealing with a health scare and experience a lot of angst around it. So, inspired by our work on Monday, I just closed my eyes and thought, "I LOVE every cell in my body. The sick ones, the healthy ones, every single one of them." Immediately, I felt Unseen Therapist with me in the room, saying "That's the spirit, girl!" - The cascade of love, warmth and well-being that filled my entire body was something I've never, ever experienced before.
Thank you all for helping me Turn Up The Love!
From someone who had to miss a meeting, so we had recorded it for her: You can’t imagine how it makes me happy to watch the recorded practice group session. I feel so close to you all when I watch it. It seems I know you much longer than a week. I’ll finish the last twenty minutes tomorrow. Thank you so much ☺️
After our meeting the thought came to mind to draw what came up for me when we invited the U T. Instead I was drawn into family stuff. This morning I was looking over my notes and the thought returned. I am no artist, but I drew a rough sketch following the words I wrote down, “I saw a stream of beautiful light travel back to heal A’s Indian hurt.”
My sketch showed a space around A, surrounded by light, she appeared dejected and alone. I then filled this space with faces, reminding me that we are never alone, we are one.
Thanks to everyone 🧡🙏
Doing lesson 2 in preparation for our meeting on Monday. Happy to have E with us not only in spirit but body too! I feel so grateful for our group. The older I get the more firmly I believe in the law of attraction. And I have felt very strongly since our coming together that we were meant to be together to do this most spiritual work. See you all soon!
Reading about the law of attraction and our group I realize that it is present in me, too. Even if I wouldn’t have this thought consciously without your message. I’m looking forward to seeing you all at Monday’s meeting.
Good morning everyone. I hope this finds everyone well? I slept very well and felt very peaceful this morning. I’ve just downloaded the video of yesterday’s meeting when my mind drifted to the scene in front of the sweet shop. I revisited being told about my mum, at first I thought I felt sad but it was confusion, which felt uncomfortable in my solar plexus, at 5-6 so I did my PPP and asked U T to clear this away for me. Out of this came lots of childhood memories, of playing with local children, conkers, skipping, roller skates; I cried not from sadness but from seeing me happy as a child. Thank you everyone for all your help. That’s another table leg I can tick off BUT I must remember Gary’s mantra, Test Test Test, because this helps to bubble up those other aspects. .So I did re-test and I felt at peace.
I hope you gals had a wonderful Thanksgiving! I just wanted to share how miraculous these weeks have been. Nothing is static and the situations will likely go thru some more ebb and flow, but the transformations I have experienced in 2 mj situations after starting with the group and applying UT with more focus, have been enormous. …. Looking forward to Thursday ❤️
Hey wonderful group of divine ladies. I just wanted to wish you all a peaceful and happy weekend. It is incredible how much life takes care of us, when we are riding the right vibe. I feel blessed to have this opportunity and doubly blessed to be amongst such supportive, pure-hearted beings :) Have a great end of week!!!
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