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Did surrogate EFT calm this crying, outraged baby?

Important Note: This article was written prior to 2010 and is now outdated. Please use my newest advancement, Optimal EFT. It is more efficient, more powerful and clearly explained in my free e-book, The Unseen Therapist™.  Best wishes, Gary

Note: This article assumes you have a working knowledge of EFT. Newcomers can still learn from it but are advised to peruse our Free Gold Standard (Official) EFT Tutorial™ for a more complete understanding.

Hi Everyone,

We get many reports wherein surrogate EFT appears to calm down crying babies. Arinda Davis gives us another, complete with her language patterns.

Hugs, Gary

By Arinda Davis

Hi Gary,

Recently my husband and I went to a Chinese buffet for dinner.  In the back of the room was a large gathering of families with several toddlers.  Right after we sat down with our plates, one of them started to cry loudly.  I looked up to see his mother stuffing him back into his seat.  He was outraged, and had the lungs to tell all of us about it.  It went on for several minutes without even dimming a little.  I decided to use EFT from a distance and see what happened.

I pictured myself facing him and looking gently into his eyes.  I tuned in to him and began to mentally tap on him softly and lovingly. 

Even though I’m so mad I can’t stop crying… for several shortcut rounds.  I noticed a small change in the distress level of the crying, so I switched to,

Even  though I still can’t stop crying, I’m starting to feel a little better… for two rounds.  I heard a definite shift, so I continued.

Even though I’m still mad and I want to cry, I feel better now…  He began to really calm down, so I finished up with… Even though I’m upset, I feel much better now … I feel good now. 

Within five minutes, he had calmed down completely and never got upset again for the rest of the time we were there.

Arinda Davis


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